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Depression and Anxiety in Later Life: A Guide for Older Floridians and Their Families
By Dr. Stacey Forbes, DNP, APRN, PMHNP-BC
Key Takeaways
- According to the National Institute on Aging, depression is common among older adults but is not a normal part of aging — and for most people it improves with treatment.
- In later life depression can be hard to spot: sadness may not be the main symptom, and it can show up as numbness, loss of interest, or physical complaints.
- Medical conditions, medications, caregiver stress, sleep problems, and loneliness all raise the risk, and some can cause depression-like symptoms on their own.
- Florida’s Elder Helpline, 1-800-96-ELDER (1-800-963-5337), connects older adults and families to local services in every county.
Families often notice it before the person does. A father who stopped going to his card game. A mother who says she is “just tired” for months. A widowed neighbour who has not left the condo much since the funeral. It is easy to put these changes down to getting older. The research says otherwise: depression and anxiety in later life are common, they are not an expected part of aging, and they respond to treatment.
Not a normal part of aging
The National Institute on Aging is direct on this point: depression is a common problem among older adults, but it is not a normal part of aging. In fact, NIA notes, most older adults feel satisfied with their lives despite often living with more illnesses or physical challenges than younger people. When low mood lasts for weeks or months, it deserves the same attention it would get at any other age.
The National Institute of Mental Health adds that later life brings changes that affect mental health — a serious illness, the loss of a spouse or friends — and that while many people adjust, grief, isolation, and loneliness that persist can lead to depression and anxiety. Effective treatment options are available at every age.
Why it is easy to miss
Depression in older adults can be hard to recognize. According to NIA, sadness is not always the main symptom. An older person may instead feel emotionally numb, lose interest in things they used to enjoy, or simply be less willing than younger adults to talk about feelings. Some of what gets described as “slowing down” is actually depression.
- Withdrawing from friends, church, clubs, or family calls
- Losing interest in hobbies or routines that once mattered
- Changes in sleep or appetite that are not explained by illness
- Complaints of fatigue or aches with no clear medical cause
- Irritability, worry, or restlessness that is new
Dementia complicates the picture. NIA notes that dementia can cause some of the same symptoms as depression, and that depression can be an early warning sign of possible dementia. That is one reason a careful evaluation matters more than a guess.
What raises the risk
NIA lists several factors associated with depression in later life. None of them causes depression on its own, but they add up.
- Medical conditions such as stroke or cancer
- A personal or family history of depression
- Stress, including the stress of caring for a spouse or relative
- Sleep problems
- Social isolation and loneliness
- Lack of physical activity, and limitations that make daily tasks difficult
- Alcohol use
Some medications and medical conditions can also produce depression-like symptoms. A good evaluation looks at the whole medication list and medical history before deciding what is going on — especially for someone taking several prescriptions from different doctors.
Florida-specific support
Florida’s Department of Elder Affairs runs the Elder Helpline at 1-800-96-ELDER (1-800-963-5337), with information and assistance services organized county by county. It is a practical first call for an older adult or a family member trying to find local services. The helplines can also be reached through the Florida Relay service at 1-800-955-8771 (TDD) or 1-800-955-8770 (voice).
Florida law also includes a specific safeguard for older adults with dementia. Before a person 60 or older with dementia who is being transferred from a nursing home or assisted living facility can be admitted to a psychiatric facility as a voluntary patient, an initial assessment of their ability to give informed consent is required. For crisis situations more broadly, see the Baker Act guide.
Treatment, and getting to it
Depression, even severe depression, can be treated. Counseling, medication, or both help most people. For older adults the practical barriers are often the hardest part: giving up driving, mobility problems, or simply not wanting to sit in a waiting room. A telehealth appointment from home removes most of those barriers, and a family member can join the call to help with the history and the plan.
Willow & Stone provides integrative psychiatric care by telehealth to patients anywhere in Florida, including seasonal residents who split the year between states. If an older adult is ever talking about ending their life, call or text 988 or call 911 right away. NIA notes that asking someone directly about suicide does not make them more likely to act on it.
Common Questions
Is depression a normal part of getting older?
No. The National Institute on Aging says depression is common among older adults but is not a normal part of aging, and for most people it gets better with treatment.
How can I tell if my elderly parent is depressed?
Watch for withdrawal, loss of interest in things they used to enjoy, emotional numbness, sleep or appetite changes, and unexplained physical complaints. Sadness is not always the main sign in older adults. A clinician can separate depression from medical causes, medication effects, and early dementia.
Where can older adults in Florida find local help?
Call the Florida Department of Elder Affairs Elder Helpline at 1-800-96-ELDER (1-800-963-5337) for information on local services in each county. For a mental health crisis, call or text 988, or call 911 if someone is in immediate danger.
Can an older adult see a psychiatric provider without leaving home?
Yes. Telehealth appointments can be taken from home by video, and a family member can join to help. The patient needs to be located in Florida at the time of the visit.
Sources & Further Reading
- National Institute on Aging — Depression and Older Adults
- NIMH — Older Adults and Mental Health
- Florida Department of Elder Affairs — Elder Helpline
- Florida Statutes §394.4625 — Voluntary Admissions
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Care in Florida
Dr. Stacey Forbes, DNP, PMHNP-BC, provides integrative telehealth psychiatry to patients throughout Florida. See psychiatric care across Florida, Florida mental health resources, or book a consultation →
If you need help right now
Willow & Stone is an outpatient practice and is not an emergency service. If you or someone you care about is in immediate danger, call 911.
For urgent mental health support at any hour, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, or text HOME to 741741 for the Crisis Text Line. Both are free, confidential, and available 24/7 nationwide.
Dr. Stacey Forbes, DNP, APRN, PMHNP-BC
Board-certified Psychiatric-Mental Health Nurse Practitioner and founder of Willow & Stone Integrative Mental Health. Nearly two decades of clinical experience; integrative, root-cause psychiatry via telehealth. Licensed in Texas, New Mexico, Florida, Alaska, Arizona & Colorado.
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